How To Make A Girl Notice You

How to make a girl notice you? Yeah, yeah, you have been there before. You see a gorgeous girl at the end of the eatery, watch her all night (shyly making sure she doesn’t notice you watching), then see her leave alone – or with someone else who wasn’t too shy to show his interest. Or you see the girl in a supermarket, selecting some items or flipping through the pages of a magazine. Again, you watch from a distance, looking away quickly if she glances in your direction.

Well, don’t be so afraid to be caught looking. The instinct that forces you to look away if someone notices your glance is all part of fear of rejection. Fear that the woman won’t be interested in return. But you will find many at times that she is flattered and that she will start glancing in your direction more often as soon as she notices you checking her out. And what if she doesn’t start looking back? You’ve lost nothing! Leave her alone and move on. Wanna know how to make a girl notice you? Then play the glance game right and you will be leaving that eatery with more than just a pizza to eat alone at home later. Or you will be leaving that supermarket with more than just coffee to show for it the next morning.

And that is what a glance is. It is contact, it is showing interest, and it is saying you are attracted. And what girls love more than anything else is to feel attractive! Women are totally shallow, vain creatures (no offense!). No matter how beautiful the girl, she still craves attention. And most girls have fears about their looks that most guys can’t imagine. I have read interview where supermodels complained of things they didn’t like about their bodies.

Don’t assume the girl you desire is so beautiful and sexy that surely, she knows it and that she doesn’t need reassurance from you – she does. She not only needs it, she craves it. Give it to her, and a girl who might not have given you a second glance will suddenly be dying to go home with you, dying to get more of that positive affirmation women want so badly. So don’t sit around trying to figure out how to make a girl notice you when I’ve just given you a top secret about hot girls, church girls, home girls, party girls, slutty girls, pretty girls and what have you. Read on, I’ll give you an example of how to make a girl notice you in 5 minutes or less.

Back to what I was describing; when a girl looks up, repeatedly, to see a guy looking at her, she is getting affirmation. She knows he finds her attractive or sexy. Her blood rises, her heart beats faster, and her skin gets flushed. She gets a little excited. She can’t resist looking his way again. And the game is on!

Let me give you an example of how to make a girl notice. In this example, you’ll see how a look leads to an introduction (and much, much more). Let’s say you are seated at a bar and spot a cutie you would like to get on closer terms with, seated at the other end of the bar. Look her way every now and then, resting your eyes on her for 30-40 seconds until she notices that she is being watched. If she doesn’t look your way in that amount of time, look away for a few moments before looking back. Staring for minutes on end could make her quite nervous in the off chance she saw you watching her out of the corner of her eye and didn’t acknowledge it.

When she does notice your glance, she may look quickly away at first. The tendency to be shy and self-conscious applies to girls as well. But don’t give up, she will look back. Keep looking her way until she looks up again. When she does, if she doesn’t shyly avert her eyes too quickly, go ahead and up the ante – take the risk of really showing her you are interested. You do this with a smile, maybe accompanied by waving your hand in her direction and nodding your head. If you are feeling bold and she is broadly smiling back at you, throw in a light-hearted wink. By light-hearted, I mean don’t act like you are Mr. Serious Stud winking at the hottie. Act like Mr. Guy who finds her attractive and has a sense of humor. A sense of humor is a good thing; acting too serious or like you think you really are Mr. Wonderful is a bad thing. Even if you are someone that she will later learn really is Mr. Wonderful, you shouldn’t act too aware of the fact. Humility about yourself, mixed with a good dose of admiration for the lady you have set your eyes on is a winning combination.

At the cost of ruining this smooth game, I’d like to stop here and attend to some other things guys. Do stay homed in to this site and the next time I post I’ll tell you how to get her interested in you, which is sequel to this very one (how to make a girl notice you). Don’t forget to comment your opinions or difficulties with approaching girls in the comment box below. Cheers!