Fast
flirting is like this; you see a girl you so badly and
you strike up a conversation with her or just happen to be in her life somehow
without finding the right time to tell her how you really feel about her? And
then all of a sudden another guy shows up and something strange happened and
the girl you want so badly end up with this dude. The new dude knows about fast
flirting and how to use it to his advantage.
When
you initiate contact with a beautiful girl try and make an effortless habit of
showing your romantic interest right away. Fast flirting helps achieve this. As
you probably know, most girls decide within the first five minutes of meeting
you whether you are a lover material or simply another ‘friend zone’ guy, so if
you don’t declare your intentions right away, even if she finds you attractive,
she may end up with your friend, who was bold enough to show his romantic
desires right off the bat.
What
you may not know is that those first five minutes is also the time you will run
simple, low-risk tests on her to find out if she is interested in you
romantically. If she is, then you have pre-qualified her, and can now
move forward with more confidence into asking her out, initiating, going for
the first kiss, etc. If she is not interested, then you’ve found out, you have
not wasted much time, you have risked almost nothing, and can move on to
someone else.
By
testing her with the flirting moves, you can find out her level of interest or
disinterest without doing much work or taking much risk. Here’s what to do…
The 5 Fast Flirting Techniques To Know If A Girl Is
Interested In You Romantically
Guys,
do this within the first 5 minutes to avoid being in the friend zone! :D
1. The Wink Test
Assuming
you’re both in the same room. You can wink at her from across the room, or wink
at her during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does
something silly, give her a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just
the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is
aware of. If she relaxes and laughs, she is interested in more. If she gets
cold or more remote, she is not. Know when to back off. Fast flirting may be a
magic wand but it mustn’t work ALWAYS.
2. The Body-Check Test
The
goal of this test is for her to see that you notice her body, without leaving
her feeling objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye
contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then
up over her body, then back to looking her in the eyes. This should happen
quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking the glance. If she seems relaxed
or happy when you meet her eyes again, she is interested in more, keep fast
flirting! If she gets cold or more remote, she is not.
3. The Eye-Contact Test
While
you are chatting with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact a little too
long – just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment
between you. If she holds your eye, she is interested in more. If she looks
away or seems upset by it, she is not.
4. The Compliment Test
In
this test you give her a compliment, and see how she takes it. The only trap
here is that the compliment must be one a potential lover would make, not one a
tepid friend would. Here’s the difference: A man who is destined to be a
woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, “You have a very nice
hand bag.” The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her
romantically. It doesn’t test her, because it hasn’t given her anything
romantic to react to. A real compliment is something like, “Wow, you have
beautiful eyes” or “I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just
light up the room”. If she smiles at your compliment, and thanks you warmly,
she is interested in more. If she seems uncomfortable, she is not interested.
At
first it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her; that is okay. Keep
going, keep taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you
are risking rejection, but that’s good!
5. The Whisper Test
Whisper
to her and lean into her space. Whispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get
all the way up to her ear. It may be too early in your interaction with her to
get that close. But you can lean into her space (a bit closer to her) and lower
the volume of your voice, to share something with her. If she comes closer or
maintains her posture, she is interested in more. If she withdraws from you,
she is not.
Any
fast flirting move can be made into a testing move. The key is that romantic
and interesting moves must:
- Make it clear in some small way
that you are romantically interested while
- Not be so risky that you are
either scary or putting your ego on the line.
With
a little practice, these moves (and more like them) will become second nature
to you, and you won’t even have to think about them. You will automatically do
them every time you meet a woman you are attracted to. Her responses will tell
you if she is interested or not, and you can assess whether or not you should
initiate more aggressive moves, and take bigger risks, from that knowledge.
In
case you don’t know how to walk up to her, which is the first thing, then I
recommend you read How To Approach A Girl or How To Start A
Conversation With A Girl.
Now
it’s your turn.
What
other moves have you used to fast flirt with a girl?
