5 Fast Flirting Techniques To Avoid The Friend Zone

Fast flirting is like this; you see a girl you so badly and you strike up a conversation with her or just happen to be in her life somehow without finding the right time to tell her how you really feel about her? And then all of a sudden another guy shows up and something strange happened and the girl you want so badly end up with this dude. The new dude knows about fast flirting and how to use it to his advantage.

When you initiate contact with a beautiful girl try and make an effortless habit of showing your romantic interest right away. Fast flirting helps achieve this. As you probably know, most girls decide within the first five minutes of meeting you whether you are a lover material or simply another ‘friend zone’ guy, so if you don’t declare your intentions right away, even if she finds you attractive, she may end up with your friend, who was bold enough to show his romantic desires right off the bat.

What you may not know is that those first five minutes is also the time you will run simple, low-risk tests on her to find out if she is interested in you romantically. If she is, then you have pre-qualified her, and can now move forward with more confidence into asking her out, initiating, going for the first kiss, etc. If she is not interested, then you’ve found out, you have not wasted much time, you have risked almost nothing, and can move on to someone else.

By testing her with the flirting moves, you can find out her level of interest or disinterest without doing much work or taking much risk. Here’s what to do…

The 5 Fast Flirting Techniques To Know If A Girl Is Interested In You Romantically

Guys, do this within the first 5 minutes to avoid being in the friend zone! :D

1. The Wink Test

Assuming you’re both in the same room. You can wink at her from across the room, or wink at her during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, give her a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of. If she relaxes and laughs, she is interested in more. If she gets cold or more remote, she is not. Know when to back off. Fast flirting may be a magic wand but it mustn’t work ALWAYS.

2. The Body-Check Test

The goal of this test is for her to see that you notice her body, without leaving her feeling objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking her in the eyes. This should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking the glance. If she seems relaxed or happy when you meet her eyes again, she is interested in more, keep fast flirting! If she gets cold or more remote, she is not.

3. The Eye-Contact Test

While you are chatting with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact a little too long – just a fraction too long, so there’s a brief, more intimate moment between you. If she holds your eye, she is interested in more. If she looks away or seems upset by it, she is not.

4. The Compliment Test

In this test you give her a compliment, and see how she takes it. The only trap here is that the compliment must be one a potential lover would make, not one a tepid friend would. Here’s the difference: A man who is destined to be a woman’s friend compliments her by saying something like, “You have a very nice hand bag.” The compliment doesn’t show that he is interested in her romantically. It doesn’t test her, because it hasn’t given her anything romantic to react to. A real compliment is something like, “Wow, you have beautiful eyes” or “I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room”. If she smiles at your compliment, and thanks you warmly, she is interested in more. If she seems uncomfortable, she is not interested.

At first it may be uncomfortable for you to compliment her; that is okay. Keep going, keep taking the risk, and up the passion in your compliments. Yes, you are risking rejection, but that’s good!

5. The Whisper Test

Whisper to her and lean into her space. Whispering to her doesn’t mean you have to get all the way up to her ear. It may be too early in your interaction with her to get that close. But you can lean into her space (a bit closer to her) and lower the volume of your voice, to share something with her. If she comes closer or maintains her posture, she is interested in more. If she withdraws from you, she is not.

Any fast flirting move can be made into a testing move. The key is that romantic and interesting moves must:

1. Make it clear in some small way that you are romantically interested while
2. Not be so risky that you are either scary or putting your ego on the line.

With a little practice, these moves (and more like them) will become second nature to you, and you won’t even have to think about them. You will automatically do them every time you meet a woman you are attracted to. Her responses will tell you if she is interested or not, and you can assess whether or not you should initiate more aggressive moves, and take bigger risks, from that knowledge.

In case you don’t know how to walk up to her, which is the first thing, then I recommend you read How To Approach A Girl or How To Start A Conversation With A Girl.

Now it’s your turn.

What other moves have you used to fast flirt with a girl?